en_tn_lite_do_not_use/jer/44/19.md

was it against our husbands that we did these things ... to her?

The women were claiming to be innocent because their husband approved of what they were doing. Alternate translation: "our husbands knew what we were doing ... to her." (See: rc://en/ta/man/jit/figs-rquestion)

cakes in her image

These were probably small cakes shaped like stars or the crescent moon.