en_tn_lite_do_not_use/jer/44/19.md

was it against our husbands that we did these things ... to her?

The women were claiming to be innocent because their husband approved of what they were doing. AT: "our husbands knew what we were doing ... to her." (See: rc://en/ta/man/translate/figs-rquestion)

cakes in her image

These were probably small cakes shaped like stars or the crescent moon.