"allow the others to arrive before beginning the meal."
## let him eat at home ##
AT: "let him eat before attending this gathering"
## it will not be for judgment ##
AT: "the gathering should not produce judgment due to lack of self control."
## And about the other things you wrote ##
"you wrote" is making explicit that Paul was addressing questions and concerns about which the Corinth believers had written to him. (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/translate/figs-explicit]])